zen can be so many different things.
its all in the eye of the beholder is what they say right?
zen to one, may be mindless sex with people they may never see again.
or it could be getting lost in the fictional life of a character in a book.
i like watching a not so realistic family deal with the trials and tribulations of one mothers life trying to control her multiple personalities and how they effect the family as a whole and on a one to one basis as well.
so my zen is an illusion.
escaping my own crazy reality to live within someone elses ’norm’ or a reality.
an oxymoron, in better terms.